Mainely Men’s next Gathering is

MM78 October 9-12, 2020.

We are cautiously optimistic that we be able to return to Pilgrim Lodge in the Fall. Stay tuned to Facebook and the Newsletter for updates.

Registration for MM 78 will open as soon as we have confirmation on whether or not we can return to Pilgrim Lodge.


Mainely Men has been holding weekend gatherings for men twice a year since 1982. Through meetings, workshops, ritual, music, discussion groups, food, sports, one-on-one conversations, films, shared work and lectures, we explore both traditional and changing views of masculinity as well as other issues we face as men.

We strive to provide a safe and open environment where we can tell our stories at levels that are not usually available to us in our daily lives. We develop trust and gain a stronger awareness of ourselves and others.

We welcome men of all ages 18 and over to celebrate our diversity as men and our uniqueness as individuals.

Come see why Mainely Men has been around for 35 years!


Mainely Men 76 – October 11-14, 2019