Mainely Men 82 Fall Gathering is happening Friday, October 7 thru Monday, October 10, 2022 !

The deadline for completing registration (payment and vaccination proof) is Friday, September 2nd !

You can register right now by clicking on the announcement to your right!

Greetings, Gentle Men!

Registration for the Fall Gathering is now open.

Our registration fees have increased.

COVID Requirements

Pilgrim Lodge is requiring all users of their facilities to be fully vaccinated against COVID 19. Mainely Men attendees must abide by that requirement as well. All men who register for the Gathering must email proof of vaccination to the Registrar within 3 days of registering or their registration will be denied. ( )

We will be following Pilgrim Lodge policy and Maine CDC guidance in effect at the time in regards to masking and social distancing.


Mainely Men has been holding weekend gatherings for men since 1982. Through meetings, workshops, ritual, music, discussion groups, food, sports, one-on-one conversations, films, shared work and lectures, we explore both traditional and changing views of masculinity as well as other issues we face as men.

We strive to provide a safe and open environment where we can tell our stories at levels that are not usually available to us in our daily lives. We develop trust and gain a stronger awareness of ourselves and others.

We welcome men of all ages 18 and over to celebrate our diversity as men and our uniqueness as individuals.

Come see why Mainely Men has been around for 40 years!

Mainely Men 81 – May 13-15, 2022